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Moving Too Fast
Question: I need to break up with someone that I met on the Internet....we met a few times, and he's moving way too fast for me. I feel uncomfortable and confused.
Before committing to a long-term relationship, many areas within each partner need to be revealed, and of course, this can only happen over time. The suggested timeframe for committing to a long-term relationship is 8 months. In the first few months of a new relationship, it's normal to feel head-over-heels, and maybe this is how your guy is feeling. If you like other parts of him besides the pressure, try communicating with him about your feelings. But, if there are too many red flags to begin with, apply Hesed (Love) in your heart, and if possible, your actions, when you say goodbye.
Before committing to a long-term relationship, many areas within each partner need to be revealed, and of course, this can only happen over time. The suggested timeframe for committing to a long-term relationship is 8 months. In the first few months of a new relationship, it's normal to feel head-over-heels, and maybe this is how your guy is feeling. If you like other parts of him besides the pressure, try communicating with him about your feelings. But, if there are too many red flags to begin with, apply Hesed (Love) in your heart, and if possible, your actions, when you say goodbye.
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